About
Alex Hilder - Celebrant offers bespoke wedding ceremony services to couples getting married near and far from Tonbridge, Kent. Alex is an independent celebrant passionate about creating soulful, joyful wedding ceremonies for soulful, joyful couples in Kent, the South East and beyond. Alex believes that each couple is unique and, as you have your own life stories and love stories, your ceremony should reflect your authentic journey. Alex will ensure that by the time you leave your ceremony, you and your guests will be on a wave of emotion that will set the tone for the rest of the day.
Services Offered
To craft you something truly special, Alex will spend time getting to know you really well. She will listen to what you would love to have in your ceremony, what to avoid including, and your inspiration from elsewhere. She also has a wealth of suggestions, such as handfasting or hand-tying (the origin of the phrase 'to tie the knot'), sand ceremonies, gin cocktail-making rituals, ring blessings, and more. She will then craft a totally personalised ceremony that includes everything and everyone you desire.
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Reviews for Alex Hilder - Celebrant
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Quality of the service 5 out of 5 rating
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Professionalism 5 out of 5 rating
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Flexibility 5 out of 5 rating
If you want a celebrant that is authentic, warm and funny, then Alex is the one for you.
We live in Australia but had the wedding in the UK, so all our correspondence was online, but she managed to just ‘get us’ and absolutely nail the brief. We wanted something funny but also that told our story with emotion. She spoke about us like she’d know us for years, such a talent for someone who has spoken to us for a couple of hours in total.
We found the process in shaping our wedding to be so effective and thought-provoking. Whilst it wasn’t something we went for, we could have had a ceremony that included sand, hand tying or ring warming, there were so many options you could choose to make the ceremony personal.
Our guests all remarked that Alex’s ceremony absolutely embodied our personalities and set off the day on the right track, which was relaxed, fun and loving. Even the wedding-dubious groom (who doesn’t like attention) immediately asked if we could use Alex again when we renew our vows!
Thank you Alex for absolutely making our special day, extra special.
We couldn't have had anyone more perfect.
Working with her has been such a pleasure and though the time was short by the end of it, it felt as though she had known us both for years! This especially came through in her ceremony and how she told our story. Her style and approach to planning and execution is very unique and how she was able to make every one of our guests feel very welcome and included in the ceremony helped make everything that much more personal.
All of our guests loved the ceremony and Alex as well and have said on multiple occasions that it's one of the most unique and best ceremonys they have attended.
At the end she has given us a beautiful folder with all of our ceremony's notes and details, our vows and her own wedding certificate, it's something that we'll always treasure. It's a shame to now have finished with her but we'll always be very fond of her because of how special she made our day, you can feel the love and effort she put's into this for each couple and we could not reccomend her more!
Conner & Maya-
Absolutely amazing
See you again next year for #babybeans christening
From MR & MRS SABEAN X
Nothing but amazing!!
Perfect Ceremony!
Best celebrant ever!!!
We met Alex at a wedding fayre. Before meeting Alex we hadn’t considered or thought about a celebrant, however after talking to her we soon realised just how special and personal she could make our ceremony and instantly knew we would love to work with her.
* Was it always planned that way? Did you have any hesitations?
After our initial conversation and first zoom call we had absolutely no hesitations and knew we’d made the right decision in Alex.
* How did you find me?
At a wedding fayre at the Barnyard- our venue!
* Why did you choose to work with me to be your celebrant?
Alex made us feel at ease and so relaxed from the get go. She has such a calming presence and this was so lovely to have on the day. Alex took so much time getting to know us individually and as a couple and captured our story so beautifully- there was absolutely nothing we would change about the whole process.
* What did you like best about working with me?
From start to finish Alex made the process so special- which we wouldn’t have had if we had used a registrar. Alex was such a calming presence on the wedding day for both of us. Nothing was too much to ask!
* Which parts of your wedding ceremony still stick out in your mind and you are really grateful that you did?
The hand tying was so special and we are so pleased we included it- we also love the gift box with the ribbon inside that Alex provided along with the beautiful print out of the ceremony script and certificate.
I wanted to say a huge thank you to Alex for reading a letter I wrote to my late father during the ceremony. Alex read it so beautifully and it was such an important and special moment.
* What was the reaction from your guests and which parts of your ceremony do people still talk to you about?
Having a celebrant!! None of our guests had ever been to a wedding like it! Every single person commented on the ceremony saying how unique and special it was. So many guests told us ‘it was the best ceremony we’ve ever heard!’
* What is the most important thing people should know about working with me?
All of your worries will be put aside! Alex is so passionate about making your ceremony as personable as possible and really has a gift for story telling.
* What advice would you give to other couples planning their wedding?
Take time throughout the day to look around and at one another and take it all in- it went by so quickly! We both tried to relax as much as possible on the day and enjoy every single moment- it was the best day of our lives!
* Would you recommend my services? If so, why and to whom?
We would recommend Alex 100% without any hesitation!! Our ceremony was the most special part of our day and something we will cherish forever. Thank you Alex for giving us such a wonderful gift.
Looking for a celebrant - look no further!
We knew we wanted a celebrant-led wedding (we planned to have the legal big done separately) as neither of us are particularly religious and wanted something that was special and personalised to us. We had booked calls with 5 celebrants , Alex being the first one we spoke to on Zoom, and we just knew straight away we wanted Alex to be part of our day and knew we didn't need to speak to the other celebrants.
Alex invested a lot of time in getting to know us in the lead-up to our big day. We had Zoom calls, regular WhatsApp messages and were lucky enough to meet in person a few weeks before our wedding.
When we heard about the homework I think we both dreaded it a little bit, but really it was so much fun and a good way to think about why we were getting married, what marriage means to us and why we chose each other. From the homework Alex was able to weave in all of our anecdotes, little sayings and funny stories, there is a real skill here and Alex's way with words is magical.
Alex really cares about making the ceremony as unique and personal as possible. During our calls Alex came up with some great ideas and also prompted us to explore our thoughts and ideas too.
Alex spent time guiding us through the flow of the ceremony and how it would work on the day and this really helped us figure out how and when to involve guests. Our guests loved being involved in the handfasting and readings.
You can see Alex's genuine enjoyment in doing what she does. Her style is warm, calm and inclusive - it's like she is giving you a big hug with her words and our guests all said how amazing she was.
We will cherish the beautiful copies of our vows and homework Alex made for us.
If you are considering a Celebrant-led ceremony please check-out Alex, we have no doubt your experience will be as wonderful and special as ours.
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The best experience!
We spoke to a few celebrants but we knew Alex was the one when she really listened to what we wanted and made us feel relaxed.
We wanted something personal but still light hearted/funny and safe to say Alex absolutely nailed the brief. We had 2-3 chats with her over zoom where she asked us a whole range of questions, and came back with a script that covered everything we wanted. She included anecdotes about all the different groups of friends and family in the room and got plenty of laughs (and tears) from everyone there!
Ahead of the day Alex also guided us through all the options for custom vows and gave us lots of examples which helped us to write our own.
On the day - it was so nice to see a friendly face at the end of the aisle! And she prepared a pack with our script and vows printed out which we can keep for the future.
Highly recommend working with Alex to anyone who wants a celebrant lead wedding - thank you again Alex, we wouldn’t change a single thing!!
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Best Celebrant Around!
We found Alex at a wedding fair and when people say everything will fall into place this was exactly that moment. From our first meeting, we walked away and knew Alex was perfect.
We chose Alex because of her calm, kindness and warm nature that really stood out to us and we knew that she would be the perfect person to recreate our story.
The most amazing part about working with Alex was the amount of dedication and genuine interest she took in getting to know us. You can tell how important it is to Alex that she fully knows and understands every part of your story. We wanted a relaxed and fun ceremony and therefore one thing that made our wedding was that we split our seating plan and made two aisles so that both of us could enter together. Alex gave us this idea and it truly made our ceremony more inclusive as our friends and family could be closer and more involved in our celebration as well as giving a less formal feel, exactly what we wanted.
Our guests loved our ceremony and we still get comments all the time about how loving but also humorous and fun our ceremony was. We had interactive questions, games and a flower boy dance entry. Alex will care about your day as much as you do and will do everything she can to make it be exactly what you want it to be. If we ever needed another celebrant the only number we would call is Alex!
No other celebrant will do!
Alex created the ceremony for our wedding, and we just loved everything she did!
We met with her several times, online and in person, and found her easy and fun to work with.
The final product - the ceremony - is only the culmination of the wonderful service she provided. The process of creating it with her was not only inspiring and loads of fun, but it also guided us through a mental preparation for getting married, with some deep thinking and reflecting on what marriage means to us, and what we value in each other.
She's a great listener, gathering nuggets of information and phrases she hears to weave into the script. We had a few ideas for rituals to include in the ceremony and she was really supportive, helping us to make them work and giving advice based on her past experience. She incorporated several of her own ideas into the script that we would never had thought of but absolutely loved. So many of our guests - from the grandparents to the young children - loved the ceremony, saying that they found it moving, original, engaging, and even funny sometimes.
On the day she took control brilliantly - making everyone feel comfortable and confident. She left us with a beautiful folder containing the script, certificate, and the questionaires we had both done for her about each other - it'll be something to treasure.
Definitely highly recommended for a wedding, and I am sure she would be a wonderful choice of funeral celebrant too.
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Alex was the best celebrant we could have wished for!
Beyond perfect
Personal, professional and simply outstanding
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