25 Mother of the Bride Dresses That Are Not Frumpy
Think mother of the bride style has to be trad? Think again! From flattering florals to modern lace, these mother of the bride dresses will have you feeling your fabulous best
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Mums, it’s your moment too. And when it comes to shopping mother of the bride dresses and outfits for your daughter’s big day, the most important thing is that you feel beautiful and comfortable in your own skin.
It’s a special and sentimental occasion, after all. You’ve seen her first smile, delighted at her first word and waved her off for her first day at school – now you’re about to watch your daughter walk down the aisle, and it’s only right that you do so in an outfit that makes you feel incredible.
Yet for far too long, standard mother of the bride dresses were – let’s be honest – rather frumpy. Thankfully, we’re here to tell you that no longer needs to be the case. In our edit of alternative mother of the bride dresses, you’ll find outfits that are stylish, flattering and classic without being frumpy.
From midis to maxis, floral dresses and lace styles, and even petite and plus size mother of the bride dresses, these are the dresses that will have you feeling your most confident on the big day.
25 Elegant Mother of the Bride Dresses That Are Not Frumpy
With dresses to suit an array of body shapes, styles and budgets, these modern and wearable styles are perfect for the mother of the groom, too.
1. Rhiannon Dress – Hobbs
You’ll feel a million dollars in this simple yet striking hot-pink mother of the bride dress from Hobbs. The shapely shift features dramatic yet elegant cape sleeves and a subtle pleated neckline – and looks just as great from the back. The statement sleeves on this style balance the knee-length hemline.
- Sizing: 6-22
- Expert take: Temper the bold pink hue with nude or metallic accessories, or showcase a colour block finish with Hobbs’ matching suede court shoes and clutch.
2. Venetia Pleated Maxi Dress – Phase Eight
Pleats and plisse fabrics are not only wildly flattering on every kind of body, but they’re an instant way to make an outfit look luxe. This jewel-toned dress from Phase Eight comes with a beautiful belt that you can use to match with your shoes and other accessories.
- Sizing: 6-26
- Expert take: This gorgeous, swishy fabric is really resistant to creasing, while being exceptionally light and comfortable. We couldn’t ask for more from a mother of the bride dress!
3. Lucy Silk Midi Dress – Rixo
When it comes to classy and more unusual mother of the bride dresses, it doesn’t get much better than Rixo and its array of dreamy fabrics, flattering cuts and hand-painted prints. The brand has long been a favourite with the fashion elite since its launch in 2015, and a frequent go-to for bridesmaids and mothers of the bride.
This silk, ankle-length style is an ode to joy with its bright, bold hand-painted florals, and would work for weddings all year round.
- Sizing: 6-26
- Expert take: The maxi length, long sleeves and modest neckline balance the open back so you don’t feel too exposed – but you will have to feel happy handling a stick on bra (or going without!) with this dress.
4. Cleo Wool Crepe Coat Dress – Lalage Beaumont
Nothing says 'mother of the bride' quite like a classically tailored coat dress. Lalage Beaumont keeps it chic with delicate puff sleeves, an elegant high collar and a beautiful pop of colour à la Kate Middleton. A timeless piece you’ll wear for many years to come.
- Sizing: 8-16
- Expert take: This wool style is designed to be worn as a dress rather than an overcoat. However, if you do want to wear something underneath, such as a slip, keep it minimal so as not to disrupt the shape. The length should also be shorter than the coat dress.
5. Sarah Embellished Wrap Dress – Monsoon
For brilliant quality and affordability, Monsoon’s occasion wear always ticks all the right boxes. Case in point, this gorgeous wrap dress covered in the prettiest gold and silver sequin embellishment that lends itself perfectly to winter weddings and festive celebrations. Just add heels and pretty pearl jewellery for a modern take on mother of the bride style.
- Sizing: 6-24
- Expert take: Some reviews state that (as is sometimes the case with wrap dresses) while the overall fit is great, the neckline can feel a little too revealing for some. Consider that you may need to allow time to have this altered if you love the dress – or try pinning yourself with a pretty brooch.
6. Midnight Dance Ankle-Length Dress – Needle & Thread
London label Needle & Thread is already a firm favourite with bridesmaids and wedding guests thanks to its dreamy fabrics, exquisite detailing and iconic prints, and there are plenty of offerings for mothers of the bride, too. This long-sleeve, ankle-length gown is one such example, featuring a statement fishtail skirt crafted from layers of soft tulle and net, and the prettiest floral print.
- Sizing: 4-18
- Expert take: Floral dresses aren’t just for spring and summer weddings! This chic and somewhat moodier take on the trend would work perfectly for autumn and winter, thanks to the long sleeves and ankle-grazing hemline.
7. Delphine Dress in Navy Cloqué – Suzannah
A go-to for discerning mothers of the bride everywhere, the understated glamour of Suzannah’s designs – with their emphasis on tailoring and fit – will undoubtedly make you feel like a superstar on the big day.
The Delphine dress is a beautiful investment piece that will fast become a capsule wardrobe hero. It’s crafted from a softly structured Italian cloqué cloth and lined with silk-satin, with sculpted sleeves, a striking tulip-shaped skirt and hidden pockets.
- Sizing: 6-18
- Expert take: Don’t assume a big occasion like this has to equal stilettos – this dress looks great with an on-trend kitten- or chunky block-heel (you’ll give the manicured lawns a break, too)
8. Palmerston Dress in Magenta – The Fold
For classic mother of the bride dresses with a stylish twist, The Fold is bursting with wearable pieces that will not only look great on the wedding day, but for every occasion thereafter. The structured cut and nipped in waist of this stretch-crepe dress flatters curves, while the eye-popping colour will ensure you stand out from the wedding crowd.
- Sizing: 4-20
- Expert take: We love the magenta pink hue for a universally flattering style that works year-round, but this dress also comes in black which you could break up with coloured shoes, statement jewellery or a bright red lip.
9. Sequin Boucle Midi Dress – Self Portrait
Metallics are a great way to take you from ceremony to cocktails, and with its sophisticated and structured silhouette, this sequined boucle dress from Self Portrait will do just that. The belt is removable but is the perfect addition if you want to create a flattering cinched waist. Bride aside, all eyes will be on you in this outfit!
- Sizing: 4-16
- Expert take: This mother of the bride dress is a fitted style with very little stretch – the label suggests sizing up if you are between sizes.
10. Embellished Knit Dress – Karen Millen
It’s not just the striking cobalt colour and high-low hemline on this dress from Karen Millen that will make you feel like a million dollars – it’s also the sparkling embellishment. And as the mother of the bride, there’s no such thing as too much embellishment – am I right?
- Sizing: XS-L
- Expert take: Work the sparkle into your accessories and pair this mother of the bride dress with a silver-toned clutch and shoes, and pretty drop earrings.
11. Balloon Sleeve Ember Midi Dress – Nobody’s Child
Already a staple for stylish everyday dresses and sophisticated occasion wear, Nobody’s Child really comes into its own during wedding season. This gorgeous design may be labelled as a bridesmaid dress, but it would also work perfectly for mothers of the bride (as long as your daughter’s bridesmaids aren’t wearing this same style, of course).
The rich burgundy hue is a real head-turner, and we love the long balloon sleeves and not-too-low V-back.
- Sizing: 4-18
- Expert take: This is one of the few colours that would work great with a pair of chic black heels. Burgundy and gold are also a winning combination. Consider beautifully styled hair and statement jewellery if you’re not keen on wearing a hat or fascinator.
12. Hope & Ivy Gisela Embroidered Maxi Dress – Simply Be
This easy to wear wrap style from Hope & Ivy at Simply Be is elevated by the delicate floral embroidery, full flutter sleeves and drop-hem skirt to make it more than occasion-worthy. It also delivers beautiful movement that’s perfect for the dancefloor.
- Sizing: 10-28
- Expert take: Alongside Hope & Ivy, check out brands such as Joanna Hope and Maya Deluxe over on Simply Be for gorgeous, size inclusive occasion wear pieces and non frumpy mother of the bride dresses.
13. Style 992301 in Navy – Veni Infantino
Having cut her teeth in several high-end fashion houses over the years, designer Veni Infantino knows a thing or two about creating non frumpy mother of the bride dresses – and her eponymous label has become synonymous with classic pieces for mums that ooze style and femininity.
Not only do we love the beading on this elegant fit-and-flare style, but the bandage-style bodice with asymmetric neckline is beyond flattering.
- Sizing: 6-30
- Expert take: Love the style but not the colour? This dress also comes in blush pink and a gorgeous antique gold hue.
14. Emma Dress – Hobbs
Cheery lemon palette? Check. Floaty fabric? Check. Floral motif? Check. This alluring silk dress from Hobbs has all the makings of a spring mother of the bride look for an al fresco wedding in the countryside. The elegant shape and button-down panel give this a tailored look without feeling too formal.
- Sizing: 6-20
- Expert take: If you’re looking for petite mother of the bride dresses in the UK, this stunning style is available in both petite and regular lengths, as are many of Hobbs’ occasion wear designs.
15. Style VO0934 in Jade – Veromia
For those mothers of the bride intent on dressing for a more formal celebration, shapely shifts, fabulous jackets and ever-stylish cocktail dresses are something classic British occasion wear label Veromia does so well. If you’re looking for a sophisticated knee-length dress, this would be our pick – can we take a moment for those sleeves?
- Sizing: 8-20
- Expert take: This stunning style also comes in a gorgeous shade of pink.
16. Lace Diamanté Bow Midi Dress – Self Portrait
For a colour that flatters all, you can’t go wrong with nude or pastel pink. And with its elegant diamanté trims, removable belt and flattering fit, this lace dress from Self Portrait offers a refreshing modern twist on a classic mother of the bride look. It also comes with a removable camisole lining for modesty. A great choice for those seeking more unconventional mother of the bride dresses.
- Sizing: 4-16
- Expert take: Your entire look should be around 80% lace – max – so contrast this all-over lace style with non-lace accessories. Add a little extra sparkle with metallics, or pearls would also work well.
17. Enya Plisse Maxi Dress – Reiss
Pale yellow is a fresh colour choice for spring and summer weddings. This body-skimming plisse style from Reiss gives a clean finish and will look extra stunning when paired with a statement fascinator or wide-brimmed hat. We can also see this mother of the bride dress at a sun-soaked beach celebration abroad.
- Sizing: 6-14
- Expert take: The fabric of this dress does have a shimmer, so we’d suggest veering away from high-shine metallic accessories and off-setting with a neutral palette such as nude or tan.
18. Emma Silk Sateen Dress in Pink – Lalage Beaumont
Classic mother of the bride dresses that are not frumpy are difficult to get right. While you want your mother of the bride outfit to feel modern, timelessness is also key and Lalage Beaumont does this brilliantly. This stunning fuchsia pencil dress oozes glamour. The V-neck is classic, but the high back collar makes it feel chic. Pair with tweed for pure winter wedding glam.
- Sizing: 8-16
- Expert take: Looking for something a little more festive? You can also get this sateen dress in a gorgeous emerald green.
19. Monica Lace Midi Dress in Blue – Monsoon
If you’re a lover of blue, the powdery shade – which is almost verging on lilac – of this dress from Monsoon will add an extra touch of elegance to the wedding day. It looks amazing next to lighter colours, is a great backdrop for sparkling or statement jewellery and is the perfect choice for mothers of the bride who want a pastel hue that’s not pink.
- Sizing: 6-24
- Expert take: Lined from the sweetheart neckline down, this elegant mother of the bride dress features a pretty, intricate lace panel that shows a hint of décolletage. We love the flattering flutter sleeves, too.
20. Luxe Curve Embellished Angel Sleeve Maxi Dress – YOURS
While blush coloured dresses are usually best suited to spring and summer weddings, the starry sequin embellishment on this glam mother of the bride dress from YOURS makes it perfect for winter and festive occasions – although, let’s be honest, you could wear it for pretty much any season. It also comes in green and navy.
- Sizing: 14-32
- Expert take: Go subtle with your accessories and let the sequins be the star of the show, though we adore the addition of silver heels.
21. Daphne Plisse Velvet Maxi Dress – Cefinn
For a winter wedding, think rich colours and luxurious textures. This velvet number from Cefinn comes in both dark blue and green, both of which have lashings of glamour and would lend itself well to a festive celebration. It’s elasticated at the back for maximum comfort and we adore the fluttery three-quarter-length sleeves.
- Sizing: 6-16
- Expert take: A dress like this calls for high-shine metallics – a sparkly shoe, a dazzling clutch and even some statement jewels.
22. Jasleen Red Satin Dress – Phase Eight
For those who appreciate the perfect shade of red, this show-stopping scarlet dress from Phase Eight features an elegant cowl neck and loose tie waist for a sophisticated silhouette. Go head to toe red in the brand’s matching satin heels and clutch, or pair with neutrals.
- Sizing: 6-20
- Expert take: Forget the frumpy shoulder shrug and wear this dress with a super-chic kimono cape to beat the evening chill. Add a hint of sparkle and you’re ready to go!
23. Maya Lace Dress – Monsoon
Embrace illusion dressing in this smartly tailored dress from Monsoon. The strappy column style offers a flattering fit, while the removable lace overlay only adds to the feminine silhouette by drawing the eye inwards to the waist. Removing it is also the perfect way to switch up your look from ceremony to reception.
- Sizing: 8-24
- Expert take: Navy blue looks divine when teamed with gold or silver accessories – but you could choose to mix it up with a pop of hot pink for a more statement mother of the bride style.
24. Fontaine Silk Crepe Dress in Ice Blue – Suzannah
If ever there’s a time to splash out on a beautiful, immaculately cut dress that’ll stand the test of time, it’s your daughter’s wedding day. This 1940s-inspired dress from Suzannah is made from Italian silk crepe that drapes like a dream over the hips and falls in soft, fluid-like folds. We defy you to find a mother of the bride outfit that’ll make you feel more spectacular than this.
- Sizing: 6-18
- Expert take: Style this ice-blue number with tonal blues, pale grey or silver – and add some delicate jewellery for an elegant touch of sparkle.
25. Racquel Lurex Maxi Dress – Rixo
You’ll be shimmering under the disco lights in this glittering cobalt blue dress from Rixo! Flecked with raindrop-like gold lurex, it features a deep v-neckline that’s tempered by long sleeves and a swishy midi length skirt. And we can’t get enough of that ultra-flattering ruched waist.
- Sizing: 6-20
- Expert take: Pick up on the gold in the dress and style this with metallic gold accessories and jewellery. It would also look fabulous with a statement fascinator or hat.
Mother of the Bride Dresses UK: FAQ
Your most common questions on mother of the bride dresses answered!
What Does the Mother of the Bride Wear?
There are no hard and fast rules about what the mother of the bride should wear, as long as the couple are happy with your choice. However, we do have a few suggestions that you might want to keep in mind when shopping for your mother of the bride outfit:
- Comfort should be a priority. It’ll be a long day with lots of running around, so you’ll want something that you can easily move in. For the same reason, try to avoid fabrics that crease easily. We love a linen number as much as the next person, but a crumpled dress is the last thing you want in the photos!
- Confer with the mother of the groom or other bride about their outfit choice to avoid clashing, or worse, turning up in the same dress.
- Take inspiration from the season, wedding style and venue. Summer wedding with al fresco nuptials? Pastel shades and floral prints will be perfect. Attending a winter wedding? Consider playing with bold block colours or a monochrome look.
- Shop within budget – but don’t go too cheap. After all, you get what you pay for, and a well-made outfit will not only last a lifetime but will make you feel as fabulous as you deserve.
- Don’t forget about your accessories. Whether you’re buying new pieces or plan to wear jewellery and shoes you already own, the right finishing touches will really make a difference to your overall look.
What Colour Dress Should the Mother of the Bride Wear?
Definitely consult with the couple on this one! Generally, the aim is to complement the wedding party’s attire rather than match it. So, if the bridesmaids are wearing a pale blue hue, for example, a rich navy would work perfectly.
Where Can I Buy Mother of the Bride Dresses?
If you’re looking for classic and traditional mother of the bride dresses that are not frumpy, check out specialist occasion wear designers such as Veromia, Lalage Beaumont and Veni Infantino, while high-end labels such as Rixo and Suzannah London would be our picks for stylish investment pieces with a modern twist.
You’ll also find elegant mother of the bride dresses in most high street fashion retailers, including John Lewis and Monsoon. If you’re looking for formal pieces on the high street, try Phase Eight and Hobbs, as they both offer outfits with matching jackets and accessories.
Where to Buy Petite Mother of the Bride Dresses?
Petite mother of the bride dresses are available in a range of stores online. Phase Eight, Rixo, Whistles, Karen Millen and even ASOS offer great petite collections.
When Should the Mother of the Bride Buy Her Dress?
“Ideally you want to be shopping for your mother of the bride dress around six to eight months before the wedding date to allow time for delivery and any alterations,” suggests Hitched editor Zoe Burke. “That should also be enough time to find an outfit you love and which you feel comfortable in.”
Can the Mother of the Bride Wear a Long Dress?
The mother of the bride can indeed wear a long dress, but it’s generally best to steer clear of anything white or ivory, unless the couple have specifically stated that they would like you to wear a more neutral palette. This is to avoid looking too typically bridal.
If you’re uncertain about your dress choice, check in with the bride to ensure your dress isn’t too similar to her wedding gown or the bridesmaid dresses.
Who Pays for the Mother of the Bride Dress?
Traditionally, the mother of the bride is expected to pay for her own wedding attire, however, the couple may offer to cover the cost – especially if they have a set style in mind that they want for their wedding.
Now you’ve chosen your mother of the bride outfit, it might be time to refresh your memory on your mother of the bride duties in time for the big day…
