Celebrate 20 years of marriage with the traditional gift of china, or splash out on the modern gift of platinum. We've rounded up our favourite ideas to suit all budgets here
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Double Decade Celebrations! The 20th wedding anniversary is a huge milestone – you made it to the big 2-0. With all those years of wedded bliss behind you, there is so much to commemorate. Now that your marriage is in its twenties, it’s time to splurge on a wedding anniversary gift that will truly dazzle. If not now, then when?
For your remarkable 20th anniversary occasion, we’ve handpicked some of our favourite (and most fabulous) 20th wedding anniversary gifts.
20th Wedding Anniversary UK: Symbolism
As the 20th wedding anniversary is such a special milestone, the traditional and modern gifts hold a lot of meaning. The classic gift is china, and the modern gift is platinum – plus, the gemstone for your 20 years wedding anniversary is emerald if you want to select some jewellery to mark the occasion.
China is chosen because it represents the delicate yet durable nature of a long-lasting marriage. Just like fine china, a relationship that has lasted for 20 years is both fragile and strong, withstanding the wear and tear of life. Platinum is one of the rarest and most durable metals, which is why it's often used in fine jewellery, and seems fitting for this milestone. For the 20th anniversary, platinum also symbolises the strength, purity and resilience of such a long-lasting marriage – solid and unbreakable.
Emerald feels like the idea gemstone to be associated with the 20th wedding anniversary, as it is often linked to love, rebirth and growth. The deep green colour represents renewal, fertility and balance – and these are all qualities that align with a marriage that has matured over time.
20th Wedding Anniversary Symbols
Traditional Gift for 20th Wedding Anniversary: China
Modern Anniversary Gift for 20 Years of Marriage: Platinum
Gemstone for 20th Wedding Anniversary: Emerald
Celebrating Your 20th Wedding Anniversary
Celebrating your 20th wedding anniversary can be both meaningful and memorable, with a mix of romance and a personal touch. There are no rules as to what you should do – but reflect on what you enjoy experiencing as a couple, and take it from there. Maybe a romantic getaway to a destination that holds significance for both of you, such as where you honeymooned or a place you've always wanted to visit together.
You could also revisit the spot where you first met or exchanged vows – take a picnic, and eat from china plates. If you want to take a trip down memory lane, why not create your loved one. a custom photo album (maybe in emerald green) and you can look at some of your favourite photos together from over the years.
You also don't have to blow the budget to do something meaningful. Maybe cook your loved one their favourite meal and have a romantic candle lit date at home, or write them a personal letter sharing some of your favourite moments from your marriage. Whatever you choose, it should reflect the journey you've taken together, honouring both the love and memories you've built over the last two decades.
20th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Traditional or Modern Couples
We’ve gathered some of our favourite traditional china and modern platinum ideas for 20th wedding anniversary presents, and we’ve also thrown in some emerald presents that your partner will adore. From china cups to gorgeous artwork, homeware to platinum jewellery, these are gifts that keep on giving. Furthermore, they will spark nostalgic memories of the past as well as inspire adventurous ideas for the next 20 years.
20th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: China
Looking for a 20th wedding anniversary gifts in traditional china? Here are some of our favourite 20th wedding anniversary gifts made in this delicate and durable material. From artful decorations to beautiful dinnerware, and one very special teapot!
1. The French Kiss Plate – Maison Flâneur
Totally stunning and made by hand, this beautiful plate, or set of plates and bowls, will make a timeless addition to anybody's kitchen.
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Expert take: We think the French kiss design adds a cheeky nod to your 20th wedding anniversary gift.
Keep your china gift traditional by gifting your partner a stunning teacup and saucer, with a modern, neon handle. Bonus points if you present it to them as you bring them breakfast in bed the morning of your anniversary.
Delivery time: Free delivery in around five days.
Expert take: There are several colour styles to choose from, and you could always buy a mix match set.
For engagement, wedding and eternity rings, you always need a trinket tray to place them in (along with other bits and bobs). Choose this lovely china dish from Bella Freud with gold edge detailing for a happy smile on your loved ones' face.
Delivery time: £6.50 for delivery in one to two days, with the option to upgrade to express delivery.
Expert take: After 20 years together, you'll know that love truly is, the drug.
4. Pastel Macaron Townhouse Candle – Jo Malone London
These absolutely stunning Jo Malone candles are housed in a textured bisque ceramic that will look beautiful when displayed on your coffee table.
Of course, the scents are just as wonderful as the jars' designs themselves, and you can choose from five delicious sounding fragrances – although this is the sweetest sounding, to honour 20 wonderful years together.
Delivery time: Free delivery in around two to three days.
Expert take: This candle will burn for approximately 70 hours, so you'll get to share the love of it together.
Hand crafted in a family owned Florence atelier, which has a longstanding heritage and reputation for craftsmanship, this beautiful bowl will be a gift that withstands the test of time.
Delivery time: £4.95 for shipping in around two to three days.
Expert take: You can use this bowl as both a fruit bowl, or serving bowl.
6. 100 Years of Royal Albert 5-Piece Plate Set – Wedgwood
If your other half loves a cup of tea or slice of cake, then these beautiful china plates from Royal Albert and Wedgwood will be a perfect choice for their 20th anniversary gift. Each plate is edged with a beautiful 22-carat gold trim to enhance the high-quality feel.
Delivery time: Free standard delivery.
Expert take: The five plates are each symbolic of a decade ranging from 1950 to 1990.
Not all spouses want romance and flowers on their 20th anniversary. Some, in fact, want something a little edgier. These gold-rimmed skull fine bone china plates are perfect for those couples who take 'Till death do us part!' with a little tongue-and-cheek, but who still want something practical and elegant for the dining room table.
You can choose from three different sized plate options, or if you're feeling generous, get the whole set.
Delivery time: Free delivery in around five days with the option to upgrade to express delivery
Expert take: This china gift is a little outside the box, but it would be perfect if your partner has a great sense of humour. To ensure the gold gilding does not fade, we recommend handwashing, although they can go in the dishwasher.
8. Spring Flowers and Bees Bone China Jug – Little Birdy Designs
This beautiful bone china vase is a stunning addition to your kitchen, whether it's filled with milk or a bouquet of flowers. The floral and bee-patterned jug graced the cover of Country Living in February of 2020 and will delight your spouse of 20 years.
It has received lots of impressive reviews, with one person writing, "great design, this jug is exactly as described. Delivery was quicker than expected and it came well packaged."
Delivery time: Free delivery in around 10 days.
Expert take: You can add on a matching tea towel and greetings card which is a lovely touch and it is dishwasher safe. Each element is hand cut and applied individually, making each one special and unique.
9. Personalised Pink Hearts 4 Mug Teapot – Emma Bridgewater
Making cups of tea for each other every day is a little symbol of love that fits perfectly into daily life. This gorgeous Emma Bridgewater teapot will be a stunning addition to your kitchen, adorned with hearts to show your love.
It has received so many impressive reviews, with one person writing, "The recipient was over the moon. Very personal gift, amazing condition, beautifully made."
Delivery time: Free delivery, in 3-5 days for orders over £50.
Expert take: This teapot can be personalised with up to 60 letters. You can have your name, or words of love and affection that are meaningful to you.
10. Little Creatures Set Of 4 Egg Cups – Helen Beard
Shopping for a lover of wildlife that also adores dippy eggs in the morning? Then this is the perfect present. The design was inspired by the urban animals of London's parks and gardens, and features ducks, a squirrel, a fox and hedgehogs.
Delivery time: Free standard delivery in approximately 10 days.
Expert take: This set was hand made in Stoke-on-Trent, the heartland of British ceramics. If you want to support homegrown talent and a small business with your gift, then this is the perfect option.
11. Love Hearts Only You Round Trinket Box – Nina Campbell
Kooky and cute, we adore this Love Hearts Trinket Box. Crafted in English fine bone china box features a sugary sweet design drawn by Tug Rice. It makes a perfect home for cufflinks, jewellery items or even confectionery… fill it with Love Heart sweets for a fun romantic gesture.
Delivery time: UK standard delivery in 3-5 working days.
Expert take: Making the oh so sweet design even more special, it is hand-gilded with 24ct gold. The detail and all over affirmations make this such a special gift
12. Tiny Matchbox Love You Ceramic Heart Token – Lisa Angel
You don’t have to break the bank to get your special someone a meaningful gift. This sweet little ceramic token is the perfect pocket-sized gift – the striped matchbox features a tiny ceramic heart. The perfect size to carry in your handbag as a little reminder of your China wedding anniversary.
Delivery time: Express next day delivery, £5.
Expert take: This present only has 5-star reviews. One says: “Beautiful little ceramic heart. A perfect addition to a present or a card or just as a gift of love. A lovely little keepsake.”
13. Seletti Love In Bloom Kintsugi Vase – Marcantonio at North Home
Okay, so we know this gift won’t be for everyone, but we love the unique Japanese-inspired anatomical heart vase. It’s the perfect present for an art lover – a reminder that gifts of love don’t have to be practical!
The vase features gold-filled cracks, symbolising beauty in brokenness – it can serve as a reminder that love is beautifully imperfect.
Delivery time: Free shipping, but can take in up to 3 weeks.
Expert take: Kintsugi is a Japanese art form that involves repairing broken pottery with gold, silver, or platinum. The word kintsugi translates to "join with gold" – we love the sentiment for a 20th wedding anniversary gift.
Calling all plant lovers! Bold and fun, this set of plant pots is a lovely 20th wedding anniversary gift. The charming white ceramic pots feature a swirly moustache and a pair of bright red lips! Add a lush green plant for a pop of colour, or use to store pens, pencils or make up brushes. Even better, you get 10% off your first order with the company.
Delivery time: Standard delivery is £5.95, dispatched and delivered within 3-5 working days.
Expert take: Add a plant to make it extra special! There are several houseplants that symbolise love, including the Hoya kerrii – with thick, heart-shaped leaves – or the Philodendron scandens – also known as the Sweetheart Plant.
We adore any excuse to discuss the lobster of love… And what better way to show 20 years of cherishing your partner then with this super cool dish. It is the ideal present for a dinner party lover; crafted with a chic stripe design, in pastel colours, it has a quirky vintage touch.
Delivery time: Standard delivery is £4.50, delivered in 3-5 working days.
Expert take: Love the lobster, but not the idea of cookware? Then you may fall head over heels for the cute trinket dish option, which costs just £15.
Looking for 20th wedding anniversary gifts packed with modern symbolism? If china is not your thing, here are some of our favourite 20th anniversary gifts in glorious platinum, or platinum focussed.
16. Florentina Heart Necklace in Platinum – Vivienne Westwood
Crafted in platinum coloured brass, this is one of those ideal 20th wedding anniversary gifts for lovers of designer styling. The iconic Vivienne Westwood logo is set in a stunning heart shaped pendant on a 44cm chain – a beautiful item that can be worn with joy, time and time again.
Delivery time: Unlimited next day delivery for 12 months costs £10.
Expert take: This gift comes in a stunning box, adorned with the same logo, so if you’re not a fan of wrapping, no problem!
If you, or your other half, are looking for firmer, plumper looking skin that appears to have a natural glow, try Sarah Chapman Platinum Stem Cell Elixir, a scientifically led, ultra-advanced essence treatment, and part of a wider range.
Customers love this product, with one writing: "it is pricey but goes a long way since you only use one or two pumps. Smells really nice, as all the other Sarah Chapman products."
Delivery time: Free express delivery with the option for click and collect
Expert take: If you're looking for an extra special gift for her on your 20th wedding anniversary, why not book your partner in for a Sarah Chapman facial? There are lots of choices to choose from.
If you want to gift your partner a ring on your 20th wedding anniversary that is stunning yet unique, consider this beautiful Calla Lily pearl ring. The iridescent freshwater pearl is set in a platinum band that features a curvaceous, flowing design that will look graceful and elegant on any finger.
It has a 4.9/5 rating from over 80 reviewers - "She was, and still is completely and utterly thrilled with it!", one person says.
We also love the idea of gifting this ring if you had calla lilies at your wedding like this customer did, "Beautiful ring, its really well made and always gets lots of lovely comments when worn! Its extra special for me as calla lilies were my wedding flower so its a lovely reminder of the day," they comment.
Sizing: I-V
Delivery time: Free delivery in around five days
Expert take: The pearls are available in four different finishes - white, peacock, silver or pink. Look at your wife's jewellery to see which shade she's most likely to love.
19. Platinum Brightest Diamond Solitaire Pendant – Goldsmiths
The delicate beauty of this platinum and diamond solitaire necklace will not fail to wow your spouse on your 20th anniversary. The style is simple yet elegant, an understated look that will still turn heads. Such a luxurious gift is the perfect way to surprise and spoil your other half.
Delivery time: Free standard delivery with the option to upgrade to express delivery.
Expert take: This diamond has over 30 more facets than you would typically find, which creates a glorious dazzle every time the light hits it. It has a classic four-claw setting for a traditional look.
Bring total glamour to any outfit with these beautiful Esska heels. Designed to get you grooving, these versatile heeled sandals in platinum are easy to wear with anything – from jeans to maxi dresses.
Delivery time: £4 for delivery in around two to three days, with the option to click and collect or upgrade to express delivery.
Expert take: An in between of silver and gold, this platinum colour is perfect for those who like to wear multi-tonal clothing and jewellery.
21. Platinum Men's Edged Fancy Wedding Ring – Goldsmiths
This matte finish platinum ring from Goldsmiths is perfect if your husband is looking for a wedding ring upgrade for your 20th wedding anniversary. It's a minimalistic design that will complement any outfit, and the smooth style means it won't catch on clothing. Discreet, modern and sturdy, this beautiful ring is designed to last you a lifetime.
Sizing: M-Z1
Expert take: Free standard delivery with the option to upgrade to express delivery
Expert take: Platinum is traditionally finished to a high shine but we think this matte finish looks really stylish.
This classic Montblanc pen from Goldsmiths will be a stylish addition to anyone’s desk, and a lovely 20th wedding anniversary gift. The timeless deep black precious resin features platinum-coated details and is surmounted by the white emblem. The perfect pen for writing love notes, we say!
Delivery time: Free express delivery, with the option for click and collect
Expert take: This is the kind of gift you wouldn't typically treat yourself too, which is why is makes such an amazing anniversary present.
Searching for a 20th wedding anniversary gift filled with timeless beauty and rich symbolism? Here are some of our favourite 20th anniversary gifts symbolising the stunning emerald, a gemstone representing love, growth and renewal. We have jewellery options and items that reflect this rich green colour.
23. Baguette Emerald Bar Necklace – Mejuri
This is a gift that will be loved for the next 20 years of your marriage and beyond. The tapered emerald baguette necklace is handcrafted in 14k solid gold, featuring responsibly sourced gemstones. Even better, it is totally unique – the natural emeralds have inclusions that add distinct character – so, no two gems are alike.
Delivery time: For orders over £100, delivery is free in 2-4 business days.
Expert take: This is a gift that will be loved for a lifetime. And, if you want to add to it in the future, there is a matching ring.
If you want to go down the emerald route, but jewellery is not the perfect match, then this ultra-luxurious tie from Hermes could be perfect. The rich green tone matched with the iconic H print make this the perfect selection for a lover of the finer things in life.
Delivery time: Free UPS delivery in 2-3 business days.
Expert take: All orders are delivered in the luxury orange Hermes box, wrapped in a Bolduc ribbon. Plus, at checkout you can add a personalised message.
So delicate and pretty, this set of emerald studs is such an elegant choice for your 20th wedding anniversary gift. You can choose from Sterling Silver, £89, 9ct Yellow Gold, £129 or 18ct Yellow Gold, £189, depending on what suits you loved one’s style.
Delivery time: As the jewellery is custom made to order, delivery times will vary.
Expert take: These earrings feature Zambian emeralds, which are 20 times rarer than diamond – making this stone an even more precious gift to mark this occasion.
The 20th wedding anniversary is a major milestone for couples who have stood the test of time for two decades! You’ll have a deep understanding of love and marriage and know each other inside out. Of course, it’s a time to celebrate and commemorate, so what are traditional 20th wedding anniversary gifts?
The traditional gift for a 20th anniversary is china, symbolising the balance of being delicate yet durable. If you are looking for a traditional 20th anniversary gift, you could select some fine china dinnerware or tableware. Or perhaps some china figurines or decorative items?
If you want something extra unique, you could look for china plates or vases that you can get painted with a personal message or name.
What are modern 20th wedding anniversary gifts?
If you don’t want to get something in china, there are plenty of other gift ideas for the 20th anniversary – platinum is the modern choice.
Platinum is a precious metal that’s recognised for its strength, rarity, and enduring quality, much like this milestone wedding anniversary. You could look for a platinum jewellery item, such as a necklace or ring, or try platinum-coated items like photo frames.
Another idea is to look for something with platinum in the name – it could be a platinum membership to a spa, a platinum gift subscription, or maybe a platinum fragrance.
What is the 20th wedding anniversary symbol?
The symbol for the 20th wedding anniversary is often a china vase or platinum jewellery, depending on whether you follow the traditional or modern gift guidelines. The vase represents both the delicate and enduring aspects of a long marriage, while platinum is a symbol of strength and rarity.
What colour is associated with the 20th wedding anniversary?
The colour associated with the 20th wedding anniversary is emerald green. Emeralds symbolise growth, renewal and harmony, which reflect the evolving and lasting nature of the relationship after 20 years of marriage. We love the idea of gifting each other presents in this rich colour – and there is so much to choose from. You can get jewellery, clothing, and even homeware items.
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