30 At Home Date Night Ideas for Cute Couples Who Love to Stay In
Why go out when you can have just as much fun on a date night indoors? These at home date night ideas will have you never wanting to leave the house
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If there's one thing the pandemic taught us, it's how fun at home date night ideas can be when you put some thought and imagination into it. You and your partner can have the dreamiest night together without having to leave your house at all – and we're about to tell you how.
Our round up of fun date ideas at home gives you so many options and activities to enjoy with your partner in the comfort of your own surroundings.
Whether you're staying in because you're a pair of hermits (same, same – honestly!) or you're trying to save money and go out less, we have a selection of couple activities at home that will have you dating indoors for good!
After all kinds of date night ideas? Don't worry, we've got you covered for that, too.
25 At Home Date Night Ideas for Couples Who Love Staying In
From quizzes and bucket lists, to meal kits and mixology, these date night at home ideas are brimming with variety – there really is something for everyone.
1. Have a Movie Night
It's one of the oldest at home date night ideas in the book, but who doesn't love a movie night snuggled up with their love? You could choose to re-watch your favourite movie, or opt for something completely new. And if you're night owls, why not pick an entire trilogy or series. All the Harry Potter films in one day and night? Challenge accepted.
It wouldn't be a proper movie night without all the snacks, so make sure you stock up and have everything out and ready so no one has to get up and go to the kitchen. All eyes must be on the screen at all times for this indoor activity.
2. Do a Quiz
Doing a quiz together is one of the best indoor date ideas if you and your partner love competing against each other and testing your knowledge. There are so many online quizzes for you to choose from, and you can get super specific ones that match any niche interests you may have.
For bonus points, elevate this indoor date night idea and write the quiz yourselves! Each write a round to quiz the other one on and see who wins. Perhaps it's a quiz about things that have happened in your relationship, or questions about their favourite TV show.
3. Play Along With a Gameshow
In-keeping with the theme of competing, playing along with TV game shows is another one of those fun indoor date ideas we just love. And the best bit about this is that there are so many to choose from.
If you're into problem solving and strategy, opt for The 1% Club or Only Connect. Love niche subjects? Check out Pointless or Mastermind.
Couples who want to keep things light and fun could have a go at Catchphrase or Richard Osmond's House of Games. And for real brainiacs, play along with The Chase or University Challenge.
Or better yet, use your favourite TV game show as inspiration and recreate it yourselves. The possibilities when it comes at home date night ideas like this are endless.
4. Cook a Course Each
Cooking dinner together is one of those classic ideas for romantic indoor dates, but we love the idea of elevating it and making it a little more fun by choosing a course each to cook.
Perhaps one of you does the starter, the other does the main and you collaborate (or order in!) for dessert? You could even amp it up further and assign your partner a cuisine for their course, or do two or three dishes each and eat tapas style?
If you're comfortable with constructive criticism, rate each other's dishes and give feedback. Disclaimer – we're not responsible for any fall out…
5. Do an Online Cooking Class
If you like the suggestion of foodie indoor date night ideas, why not sign yourselves up to an online cooking course?
You can find so many different ones which focus on specific cuisines and skills, and some even work as part of a series or course which is great for couples who find it hard to schedule time for at home date nights.
By signing up to a course, you guarantee you'll make the time each week to spend time together and learn a new dish.
6. Play Board Games
One of our favourite indoor activities for couples is to get the board games out and play away.
Whether it's a wordy game of Scrabble or Bananagrams, a tense Jenga battle or a tactical game of chess, playing board games is one of those home date night ideas that really allows you to switch off from your phones and devices, and spend quality time together.
7. Do a Virtual Museum Tour
Of course, the pandemic was tough for so many reasons, but there were some good things that came out of it – one of those things was the development of virtual tours.
Popular museums and art galleries began to offer virtual tours and exhibitions that could be enjoyed from the comfort of your own home.
If this isn't one of the best at home date ideas for culture vultures, we're not sure what is!
8. Watch a Theatre Show or Concert
Speaking of culture, is there anything better than enjoying all the entertainment of a theatre or West End show without having to leave your front door? We think not.
Many popular plays and gigs have now been recorded or re-enacted on screen, and watching them together makes for a really entertaining home date night.
From Glasto to Les Misérables, when it comes to cultured date night at home ideas, this is the ticket.
9. Paint Your Partner
Depending on how well you can paint and draw, this at home date night idea could be pure comedy gold.
Put that art GCSE to good use and pick up some paints, brushes and canvases from your local supermarket or craft shop (or raid the children's art cupboard – they'll never know) and spend the evening sitting across from one another painting portraits of each other before revealing your results at the end.
We guarantee at least one, "is that really how you see me?"
10. Host a Book Club à Deux
If you and your partner are avid readers, you'll absolutely love the idea of hosting a book club date night.
Together, choose a book you think you'd both be interested in, and spend the week (or month, depending how long it is) reading it – but don't talk about it, at all! Once you've both completed it, schedule a time to bring this indoor date idea to life and spend the evening discussing the book, what you loved, what you didn't like and more.
The other way to do this is to both recommend a book to the other that you've read. Then, when it comes to your couples night at home, you can each give the book your partner gave you a little review and discuss both options.
11. Watch a Comedy Show
There's nothing like laughter to ignite a spark – which is why watching a comedy show is one of our favourite date ideas at home.
Streaming services such as Netflix and Prime – and even free apps like BBC iPlayer and 4oD – have a wealth of stand-up comedy options for you to choose from. Whether it's an on-tour stand-up show, or a panel show like Mock The Week, you're in for a hilarious treat if you pick this idea.
12. Make Your Own Games
Get crafty and create your own games for an indoor date night of dreams. Task each other with making one game each and bringing it to the date night.
Truth or dare doesn't quite cut it for this one, we're afraid. Think DIY bowling or hoopla, a handmade board game or your own take on beer or Prosecco pong.
13. Play Video Games
If you and your partner are overdue a night of nostalgia, level things up with the video games you used to love as kids and battle it out. We're talking Mario Kart, Sonic the Hedgehog and Pokémon. Feeling a bit more energetic? Pick up the latest edition of Just Dance, kick off your shoes (and socks – you don't want to slip!) and enjoy a fun-filled time dancing to everything from classic rock to K-Pop.
You never know, this could be an at home date night idea that turns into a regular thing…
14. Explore Your Signs
For spiritual couples, this is one of the best at home date night in ideas.
Spend the evening exploring your star signs and finding out whether or not you're moon phase soulmates!
There are tons of free resources online which allow you to draw up each other’s birth charts, generating a picture of the sky at the exact moment you arrived into the world – all you need to know is that date, place and time.
From there, you can find out your sun, moon and rising signs – trust us when we say it’ll give you a deeper understanding of your partner’s traits than you might expect…
15. Mix Some Cocktails
For a fun and interactive couples date night indoors, become mixologists for the evening and craft your own cocktails together.
This one isn't just for the alcohol drinkers, either. We love the products from CleanCo, which offers alcohol-free spirits you can use to create your very own hangover-free concoctions. The company even has a cocktail recipe book with dozens of amazing recipes for you to try at home.
16. Give Each Other Massages
Is there anything more relaxing than a massage? How about getting one without having to pay for it?
We're all for a couples spa break, but when it comes to romantic date ideas and at home date nights, giving and receiving massages is absolutely something you can do indoors. You could keep it relaxed and stick to foot massages in front of the TV, or you could do all the prep, dim the lights and watch tutorials explaining exactly how to deliver a killer back rub.
17. Recreate the Spa at Home
Speaking of spas – why just stop at massages when you could recreate the entire spa experience? We're talking face masks, foot scrubs, massages – the lot!
Stock up on pampering products (and a bottle of fizz, obvs!) and prepare to enjoy a night in, with candles lit and relaxation music on. Doesn't that sound serene?
18. Plan Your Next Trip
We challenge you to find something more fun than coming up with your next exciting trip together. Planning your next holiday or getaway is just such a fun thing to do together, and we love the idea of turning it into an at home date night activity.
Each of you could prepare a pitch (PowerPoint presentations at the ready, folks) and include reasons why you want to go there, what you'd do and an example itinerary.
Once you've decided where you'll head, you can get researching. Pop open a bottle of wine and get on YouTube to watch those hotel reviews and holiday vlogs.
19. Comic Strip Your Relationship
Calling all creative and artsy couples – this is one of the cutest at home date night ideas, like, ever.
From the moment you met to right now, spend the evening comic-stripping your relationship timeline. Work on it together as a pair, or create individual ones which you can share once you've both finished. Either way, it's *so* cute and if they're good enough, you might even want to frame them afterwards.
20. Go Completely Unplugged
This may be a challenge for some couples, but unplugged date night ideas at home are needed sometimes. It's pretty difficult for most people to imagine a date night, or any night, that doesn't involve technology of some sort (and that's a whole other issue in itself).
So, why not choose to spend a night at home with absolutely no tech or screens whatsoever – and see what you come up with. It's a great way to remain completely present throughout the whole night.
21. Bake Some Sweet Treats
Much like cooking dinner together, baking a dessert or selection of sweet treats is a fun and creative at home date night idea – and there are plenty of at home baking and decorating kits to make the task even easier, including those from The Hummingbird Bakery.
From Pride cupcake decorating and brownie baking – not to mention a great selection of recipe books – you'll be spoilt for choice.
"What could be better than having a stack of sweet treats to decorate? Eating them after, of course," says Hitched Editor Zoe Burke. "This was a super fun at home date night idea as we could get our young child involved and decorate the brownies together before having an absolute dessert feast. They also make a cute wedding gift idea, too."
22. Get Dressed Up for Dinner
Just because you're planning a date night indoors, doesn't mean you can't dress to impress, right?
Whether you're ordering a takeaway or cooking for each other, make the effort to get completely dolled up from head to toe and set the table with candles, flowers, glassware – the whole shebang. Not only will you feel amazing, but it will also give the illusion that you're not at home, even if you are sat in your very own dining room.
23. Bring a Board – Each
You've heard of bring-a-board nights, where each person brings a sharing board that's a certain colour, cuisine or theme – it's such a good way to elevate a night in – and we reckon it can be tailored to be a great at home date night idea, too.
You and your partner could allocate the other one a theme for the board, maybe one does Indian and the other does Italian, and you get to enjoy two cuisines.
Another way of doing it is to each create a board with all of your partner's favourite things on it. Not only is it thoughtful and sweet, but it's a chance for you to each show one another how much you really do know each other – plus you both get to enjoy all your fave snacks.
It's ideal for couples who like totally different things.
24. Recreate Your Favourite Date
It's not uncommon for couples to recreate their first date, but we're bigger fans of recreating your favourite date instead. Maybe that is your first date, but maybe it isn't.
You can recreate it by coming up with ideas together, but something we'd recommend doing separately is writing down why this date is one of your favourites, or noting a list of your best memories during dates you've had in the past.
Then, during the recreation, you can take it in turns to share your memories. So sweet.
25. Write a Bucket List
The last of our at home date night ideas and activities is perhaps the most exciting of all – and that's the bucket list date night. When you're in a relationship, talking about your dreams, aspirations and goals is vital to being on the same page and understanding what's important to each of you.
Both come prepared with your bucket lists and goals for the next year (or longer) and discuss each one, talking about the ways you can support each other to tick off as many things as possible.
If your bucket list involves travel, check out our roundup of the best multi-destination holidays around the world, or for something a little closer, these UK minimoon hotels are sure to wow you.
Best At Home Date Night Buys
Dial up the romance with these fun and affordable date night options to try at home...
1. Bake at Home Cookies – Cake or Death
Satisfy your sweet tooth by whipping up a batch of cookies – and believe us when we say they don’t come much tastier or easier to make than the Bake at Home Cookies from Cake or Death.
Choose from three flavours of cookie dough to be delivered to your door: Peanut Choc Chip, Vanilla Funfetti or the deliciously brownie-like Double Choc Chip. You’ll get enough for 10 large cookies that also happen to be vegan. They're as great served slightly warm with a scoop of ice cream as they are with your mid-morning coffee – or just nibble the cookie dough raw, we’re not here to judge.
2. ‘The Date Night’ Art Box – Art Sippers
Laugh, learn, and ignite your inner Picasso with this super cute date night kit filled with art supplies and snacks. Alongside all the premium art supplies, you’ll also get two 9” x 12” stretched canvases for your mini masterpieces, two alcoholic or non-alcoholic drinks and two tasty chocolate or sweet treats.
Feeling uninspired? Why not have a go at painting portraits of each other as suggested in our roundup above– or check out the online workshop (voucher also included in your box) for simple step-by-step instructions. You’ll have a (downstairs bathroom) wall-worthy piece in no time.
3. Cheese Bakes Night In Selection – Snowdonia Cheese Co.
Enjoy a cheesy night in for two with this meltingly good sharing board from Snowdonia Cheese Co. The kit includes two hot cheese bakes, two cheddars, a couple of tangy chutneys to complement and a box of fig and cranberry crackers. Just add crudités and plenty of crusty bread for dunking. Heaven!
4. Get Closer Conversation Game: Couples Edition – Intelligent Change
The five-star reviews for this cool couples’ game from Intelligent Change speak for themselves. The easy-to-play prompt card game is perfect for unplugged date nights at home, and is designed to enhance intimacy and nurture connectedness by encouraging you to engage in deep and meaningful chats about love, dreams and life experiences – with three levels of ‘closeness’ to choose from.
“These cards have been a game changer for my relationship with my wife,” says one reviewer.
5. Michelin Star Food Delivery – Aktar at Home
Celebrating something special? Upgrade your usual takeaway with a delivery from Aktar at Home by renowned Michelin-star chef and founder of Opheem, Aktar Islam.
The award-winning curry boxes include a wide range of meat, veggie and vegan options, with sides including fluffy naans, Punjabi samosas, and Aktar’s signature pilau rice. Everything is blast frozen for maximum flavour and freshness and couldn’t be easier to prepare – you could even throw in a bottle of wine from the Opheem cellar to enjoy while you wait… Fine dining has never looked so comfortable.
Want date night ideas you can share with another couple? Don't miss our round up of the best double date ideas too.
