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About

On Hitched.co.uk since 2019

Last update: August 2024

A refined and relaxed boutique hotel and wedding venue at the heart of the North Wessex Downs, The Retreat is where quirky British sensibility meets elegant, authentic luxury. We blend the old with the new, the refined with the comfortable, and the local with the worldly.

Since opening in June 2022, The Retreat has become a destination of choice for guests from all over the world and was recently named Britain's Best Hotel by The Times and the Sunday Times, topping their list of the Top 100 Places to Stay in the UK. The perfect venue for your dream wedding.

Facilities and Capacity

Inside The Retreat, you can choose from 6 beautiful spaces to hold your Civil Ceremony. With our largest room accommodating up to 80 Guests for your Ceremony and our smallest accommodating up to 6 guests, there are lots of options for you both to think about! During the warmer months, we offer outdoor Ceremonies - what could be more beautiful than exchanging vows with views of the Wessex Downs as your backdrop! We also offer Exclusive Hire of The Retreat.

Once you've tied the knot, you and your guests will enjoy a delicious Wedding Breakfast and Toast as the new couple. A fun Evening Reception will then unfold whilst you mingle, sip wine and dance while the sun sets over the Wessex Downs.

Located on sixteen acres of gorgeous grounds, with a sweeping staircase and a grand fireplace, there are many beautiful backdrops for photos!

As well as 55 individually styled bedrooms and suites, two stunning restaurants and an indulgent spa, there’s also a heated outdoor pool, a charming courtyard with a wine cellar and TV Chef Clodagh McKenna’s first signature store, as well as a Hair & Nail Salon, perfect for the bridal party’s finishing touches.

Services Offered

The Retreat offers 3 comprehensive Wedding Packages for you to choose from, and our Weddings Manager will be on hand to make sure your planning and your Day runs smoothly. Should you be looking for a more intimate Wedding, then our team would be delighted to put together a bespoke package for you.

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Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Small hotel
Stately home
Outdoor license
Unique weddings

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Alcohol licence
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Overnight accommodation:

Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Overnight accommodation for guests

Venue staff assistance:

Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Hairdresser
Swimming pool
Health suite
Beautician
Fitness centre

Other features:

Exclusive use
Accessible facilities
Car parking
Pet-friendly
Orangery on site
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Reviews for The Retreat at Elcot Park

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4.9 out of 5 rating
4.9 out of 5 rating
11 reviews
98% recommend it
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    5 out of 5 rating
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  • Value for money
    4.9 out of 5 rating
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Amy F. Sent on 09/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect venue for the perfect day

Everything about the Retreat at Elcot Park is perfect.

Firstly, Sam who is the sales and events manager is superb. She is efficient, flexible and the most wonderful person to work with.

Every member of staff you meet at the Retreat is so welcoming and lovely. You feel at home there whether you are staying for a night, coming for lunch and even more so when you are getting married!

The food is exceptional. From the tasting menu when we were choosing our wedding food to on the day, it was flawless.

Finally, the rooms - wow! We had the Percy Shelley Suite as our room for the night before, getting ready and on the wedding night and its not only extremely big, but everything in it is perfect. We have also stayed in other types of room and never been disappointed!

The venue was extremely flexible in many aspects and we believe the wedding package was great value for money.

Thank you all so much!
Gabrielle
Gabrielle W. Sent on 25/09/2024
4.8 out of 5 rating

Wonderful venue!

We had a wonderful wedding put on by the retreat. the venue made us feel extremely well looked after and accommodated out needs superbly. The catering and drinks selection was excellent too. |I really recommend them to anyone looking for a venue.
Derrick
Derrick G. Sent on 16/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect venue for a perfect day

Sam and the team at The Retreat made our day absolutely perfect, I don't think I could write a review worthy of all the support they gave. The venue speaks for itself from the second you turn on to the drive to the interior.

The food was stunning and the service was matched.

Both myself and my wife couldn't recommend this location more
Louise
Louise S. Sent on 18/12/2023
4.8 out of 5 rating

A wonderful, intimate wedding celebration at Elcot

We had a two night stay and a micro wedding breakfast at Elcot in September. The room was beautiful, the food delicious, and the staff incredibly helpful and attentive. It’s a stunning venue for weddings of all sizes - I’d get married there every year if I could!
David
David J. Sent on 18/12/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Relaxed and beautiful setting

We had a tiny wedding, with the service at Shaw House before returning to Elcot for photos and the wedding breakfast in a private dining room. The team at Elcot were excellent and helped to make the day run smoothly.
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Rory S. Sent on 02/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Magical Day at the Retreat

What a place, what a day. We are local to the Retreat and the whole reason we booked our wedding day was purely based on the atmosphere, staff and the beautiful setting.

Thoroughly looked after from day one by Samantha, the wedding and events manager who noted every fine detail, looked after us on every meeting we had before the big day and felt like part of the wedding party on the day.

We got struck with spots of rain on the day, no problem for the Retreat… there contingency plans were well worked out, and all staff accommodated all our guests rain or shine.

We’d recommend it to anyone, and if you aren’t sure, go have some cocktails, drinks and a meal there as guests, and you’ll be sold.

Thank you to the team once again, and a big thank you to Samantha who made our day happen.

Lots of love
Rory & Millie
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Maria Sent on 27/05/2024
4.8 out of 5 rating

Incredible Wedding Location

We held our wedding weekend at The Retreat starting with an intimate ceremony and dinner, a party the following day, and tea and scones to finish the weekend. It is a truly spectacular wedding venue and can cater from a small event to a large party. It really is a special place and a proper retreat weekend - from the pool, spa, the stunning decor, to the incredible food and the gorgeous grounds. Our guests were blown away by such a hidden gem in the countryside.

If you are looking for a beautiful yet relaxed wedding venue where you can have everything under one roof without costing the earth, this is it!!
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Laura Sent on 26/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Civil Partnership & Naming Ceremony

We had a lovely, relaxed, combined naming ceremony for our son and civil partnership for us in The Orangery at The Retreat. Everyone was professional but friendly, the whole thing was relaxed and well organised, the decor was lovely and the food (afternoon tea) very delicious! Would absolutely use The Retreat for other special occasions, knowing they will look after us and we won’t need to stress!
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Emma F. Sent on 31/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful wedding venue

We couldn't recommend The Retreat any more highly! Samantha made organising our special day really enjoyable and stress free! The venue is absolutely stunning and nothing was too much trouble to make our day perfect...a brilliant choice for a large wedding or a much more intimate day like ours.
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Jon A. Sent on 18/12/2023
4.6 out of 5 rating

Our Wedding - 4th August 2023


From the moment we signed the agreement to have our wedding at The Retreat, we were made to feel very special and at all times, had complete faith in our wedding planner Samantha and the perfect day she was creating for us.

The Retreat is local to us, and was the only place we wanted to get married, as it is very special to us. We often head to The Retreat for a lovely meal or a drink on the terrace.

We absolutely love the beautiful grounds and The Orangery that we had our ceremony in, it is a room full of light and once we had filled it with all our closest family and friends it was perfect.

The staff were incredibly attentive all day, there was never an empty glass, food was served quickly and without fuss, and nothing ever seemed to much for either us or guests to ask.

With the The Orangery having a lovely terrace and access to the gardens, it also meant guests could enjoy the outside, whilst having a drink, listening to the music or whilst the room was being changed for the evening.

The food for the Wedding Breakfast was first class and we have had many guests tell us how impressed they were with the quality of food, that was catered for on mass.

We had the most perfect day and wish we could do it all again!
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James D. Sent on 18/12/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible setting and lovely staff!

Rebecca and I wanted to have a small ceremony to legally marry prior to flying out to Lake Como to have our wedding with all of our friends. The setting was perfect and the team at Elcot Park were super flexible and helped make our special day run perfectly. Thank you!!
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