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Last update: May 2024

Nestled in the heart of the Kent countryside on a magnificent 150-acre site, Tonbridge School offers 6 licenced ceremony locations and a variety of traditional, elegant, and contemporary function rooms for your special day.

From intimate ceremony venues for up to 30 guests to grand celebrations for 200 guests, we can help turn your wedding dream into a reality.

We offer bespoke packages and menus to match your style and budget. These include canapé receptions and traditional three-course wedding breakfasts, as well as afternoon teas, hog roasts, and buffet banquets for those preferring something more informal.

We will be by your side from beginning to end to ensure your wedding is everything you have dreamed of. If you would like to book a visit and meet us in person to discuss your ideas further, please don’t hesitate to contact us.

Ceremony location options.

The Lowry

Situated in the heart of the school, the Lowry Dining Room is full of traditional charm and is brimming with timeless elegance. It features a vaulted ceiling adorned with ornate golden chandeliers and a minstrels’ gallery for your photographer to capture those all-important group photos or the moment you say ‘I do’.

The Ogilvie Room

Located near the Lowry Dining Room, the Ogilvie Room is the ideal venue for your bridal preparations, complete with comfy sofas and a full-length mirror for those last-minute checks before you walk down the aisle. It is also the perfect venue if you are looking for a smaller, intimate ceremony or a great place to escape to when you need to rest your dancing feet later in the evening.

Skinners Library

On selected dates throughout the year and with special permission from the Headmaster, Skinners’ Library is available for your wedding ceremony, drinks reception or canapés. During the winter months, the venue features a roaring fire and a towering Christmas tree decked with twinkling lights in the bay window. In the summer, an outdoor ceremony and drinks reception are also possible.

Old Big School Gallery

With its modern aesthetic and bright atmosphere, OBS Gallery is the perfect venue for any part of your special day. It features large stone windows to bathe your wedding in natural light, providing stunning photographs of your ceremony or wedding breakfast. In the evening, a bar can be set up in the adjacent room so that your guests can enjoy a drink as they dance the night away under the twinkling fairy lights.

Big School.

Located adjacent to OBS Gallery, Big School is our largest function room and features a stage perfect for your band or DJ to get everyone in the dancing mood! While this venue is best suited for your evening reception with cold buffets, it is also a popular choice for couples looking to bring in external caterers as a marquee can be set up adjacent to the function room for them to work from. Please get in touch to discuss further.

The Orchard Centre.

Situated on the first floor, the Orchard Centre offers stunning panoramic views from the balcony overlooking the school’s renowned cricket pitch, The Head. With a capacity of up to 150 guests, it is an ideal venue for large wedding parties and is particularly well-suited to couples seeking a relaxed, informal atmosphere with a buffet or hog roast menu.

Frequently asked questions

Venue type:

In the country
Sporting
Unusual weddings
Historic
Outdoor license

Ceremony options:

Civil ceremony licence

Dining options:

Seated meal facilities
Corkage option
Alcohol licence
Buffet meal facilities
In-house catering

Evening entertainment:

Marquee available
Dance floor
Entertainment licence
Live band facilities
Evening reception facilities
DJ facilities

Venue staff assistance:

Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Wedding coordinator

Venue leisure facilities:

Swimming pool
Fitness centre

Other features:

Accessible facilities
Car parking
Helipad
Confetti permitted
Pet-friendly
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Helen Sent on 12/11/2019
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Fabulous venue and staff

Hannah & Marie were great, very open to ideas and did everything they could to make our sometimes crazy ideas work! The Old Big School Gallery was a perfect reception venue and the Orchard Suite was a perfect location for the Hog Roast and party. Our guests had a fantastic time!
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Ray Sent on 07/08/2017
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Magical Wedding with Nostalgia

A massive thank you to Kelly and the rest of her events team for helping plan and coordinate a fabulous wedding. Venue was exceptional as always and being an Old Tonbridgian, we were also delighted to use the magnificent St Augustine chapel and Marcussen organ. The experience was magical and the guests were in awe. A wedding venue that exceeded its expectations!
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Anonymous Sent on 20/10/2016
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Perfect venue for the perfect day! The service was amazing from start to finish! Couldnt have asked for a better venue! Thank you so much to everyone that made our big day so special!
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Anonymous Sent on 20/10/2016
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Kelly, Marie, Sheila and all the rest of the team were absolutely amazing on our wedding day on Saturday 29th August 2015. An unforgettable memory that we will treasure as long as we shall live. Every single sole that attended the wedding was stunned by the venue, Biggest thank you ever!
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Mrs Sent on 20/10/2016
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Just wanted to tell any potential Tonbridge brides- look no further than Tonbridge School for a fabulous wedding reception/ Marie and her team are wonderful - nothing is too much trouble. The setting is amazing- food superb and service friendly and efficient. We will never forget our Tonbridge castle/ Tonbridge School wedding day this April.
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Jana Sent on 20/10/2016
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We got married at Tonbridge School in April 2016. The events team were absolutely amazing and extremely helpful. All planning went very smoothly and communication between us and the events team was very good. The meeting we had with Marie Wallace was very positive and made us feel very comfortable about our choice of the venue. The day was absolutely great! The events team did great job with the parking and directing people to the right place. We couldn't choose better people to work with and a more beautiful place even if we wanted to. The grounds, gardens and stunning cherry tree in front of the school made our wedding pictures look absolutely fabulous! Thank you!!! Jana and James
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Anonymous Sent on 10/10/2016
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Helpful & Approachable

Thank you very much for all you did in the lead up and also on the day for our wedding! You were very helpful and approachable, thank you. Please pass on our thanks to all staff on the day who were fab.
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